Discovering Gentle Parenting

When I became a mother, I had only heard of 4 parenting styles: Authoritative, Authoritarian, Permissive, and Neglectful. By the time my older one was a toddler, I came to know about Gentle parenting. Yes! That was it. I wanted to be a gentle parent. Please internet, tell me how to be a gentle parent so I can stop yelling and losing my mind with my kids! I just wanted to know the steps and I was ready to go into the “gentle parenting diet”. That was my analogy. Much like a diet where you are told what to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner, I was ready to take the steps needed to make myself a gentle parent ASAP. I was dealing with 2-under-2 which means two kids under the age of two with mine being specifically 15 months apart from each other. Toddlerhood plus baby was over-stimulating and back breaking but somehow, we got through it. One night, right before bedtime, when my girls were 4 and 2, my older one fell and hit her forehead at the corner of our wardrobe. She cut herself ...